It’s our first full fall in the new house, and October already feels full in the best way. I’m excited to experience our first stretch of fall holidays here—prepping for Halloween, hosting a few events, and planning for Thanksgiving. I’ve been working on Halloween decorations this week (taking the girls’ requests into account, of course), and the first room we designed in the house is finally getting prepped. The girls’ rooms are also getting some updates— fresh paint, new window treatments, and rugs.
We kicked off the month with the launch of my Kilte collaboration, which has been such a rewarding project. And now, we’re packing up to head somewhere cooler for the weekend. Here’s a peek at what we’re doing, wearing, buying, and eyeing this month.
What We’re Doing
- We’re kicking off the month with a trip to England and Ireland for the girls’ fall break— starting in London, then to the countryside, and finally over to Ireland to visit my sister, brother-in-law, and nephew. I can’t wait to explore with the girls and Thomas is running his first marathon in Ireland!
- Halloween prep is underway. Since this is our first year decorating an almost 200-year-old home, there’s so much more to work with. I ordered 12 of these skeletons to “climb” the front of the house– now I’m just trying to figure out how to actually create it!
- I ordered the girls’ Halloween costumes a few weeks ago— Pottery Barn always delivers on the princess-fairy-light-up-front. Goldie picked this Fairy Butterfly costume, and Clementine picked two: this purple witch one and this candy fairy one. I always get two— one for school and one for Halloween night. I’ll be matching Clem this year with this cape, a black hat, and a black lace dress.
- My collection with Kilte launched this week. We hosted a dinner at our house last night to celebrate— it was an entirely new direction for the brand, and I love when collaborations stretch both sides creatively. I’m so proud of how this one came together.
- Amazon’s Prime Big Deal Days are coming up next week. Here’s what I suggest saving to buy:
- I’ll be posting a “What I’m Packing” video for England and Ireland later this week on Trade Offs (for paid Substack subscribers).
What I’m Wearing
- AEYDE suede boots — packing these for our trip; I already know they’ll be on repeat
- Hunter Bell faux burgundy skirt — it’s coming with me too
- Pillbox hat — my first! Still deciding if I can pull it off, but giving it a try in London
- Cashmere triangle scarf — I have it in both colorways; love the bold pop it adds
- Maygel Coronel bodysuit — my go-to statement with fall skirts
- Leopard Print Jeans
- Jamie Haller penny loafers — these feel like butter on
- Missoni dress — also coming with me
What I’m Buying
- New Sunglasses — after years of loving the black and tortoise
- Gucci Velvet Slippers in Green
- Simon Miller Pants — these are a fun statement for the holidays
- Simon Miller Jacket — I love the metallic shade
- Chan Luu Paisley Silk Skirt — this color and print is so beautiful
- Cabana Marble Tablecloth — styling this for Thanksgiving
- Matching Napkins
- Leather Pants — beautifully cut
- Cult Gaia Coat — a show-stopper
- Tassel Clutch — chic and under $100
What I’m Eyeing
- Lucia Massari — I found through Patricia at One/Of. Her Murano glass face mirrors are so special, and we’re currently eyeing a special one to add to our home.
- I’ve been intrigued by Thngs.world for its global edit of independent fashion, accessories, and curated “finds” that feels fresh, unexpected, and full of discovery.
- Fendi Spring 2026 Collection — especially that grid coat and the colorblocked bags. I haven’t paid much attention to Fendi in a few years, but this has me very excited to shop them next year.
- This Ulla Johnson Fernanda Coat stopped me in my scroll. I love the mix of purple and deep greens, it’s a special piece.
- Art by Domenico Ginoli — I’ve been drawn to Domenico Ginoli’s work for its quiet intricacy—his compositions feel both contemporary and antique, with an almost storybook quality that’s completely transportive.
- House of Guinness — I downloaded for our long flight this weekend.
- Erdem SS26 Collection — The colors remind me of The Gilded Age — bold and opinionated, the way color used to be.
- Summer Thornton in Elle Decor — we saw more photos in person when we met at her office. Every inch reconfirmed that our home is in the right hands.
- Chloé Coat — beyond!